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This blog and overall concept comes directly from my wife. Without her, we would not have One Gentleman’s Perspective. On two separate occasions, we touched on the style aspect of the blog. She knows me very well, therefore, understands the importance that style plays in a gentleman’s lifestyle. Honestly, I was not sure how to incorporate that aspect. It was all a blur until she said, why don’t you share your perspective on dressing the part, calling it One Gentleman’s Closet?
My wife is far smarter than she lets on, which is why I believe in embracing or at least, taking into consideration the opinions of other people. One Gentleman’s Closet…that is bloody brilliant. What can you expect in this closet? I will give my perspective on the following, but not limited to:
- How to properly complement colors
- Upon request, share my network of tailors scattered throughout most countries. I try to keep my ears and eyes open for talent, so it makes sense to direct you to someone who can assist in your wardrobe
- How to dress like a gentleman within your budget
- General tips such as how to tie techniques, what to wear depending on the event, how to shop for women, how to shine your shoes, laundry care, etc.
- Understanding the definitions for different clothing terms
- How to dress for your physique and style
Clothing will not, nor can it make the man. A man defines his choice in clothing, thus, he makes the clothing shine. In my opinion, dressing well is an extension of having good manners. Regardless what you may think, the way you dress is how people interpret who you are.
When I enter a meeting, my presence demands a certain reaction. Why is this? Is it because of the tailored suit? No! It is the guy behind this tailored suit, who demands a certain reaction.
A $3K Ermenegildo Zegna DB check suit is just a suit, if its wearer lacks confidence and does not fit well. On the other hand, a made-to-measure or bespoke suit on a guy with confidence, that is an entirely different conversation. As my wife posted on her Pinterest, A well-tailored suit is to women, what lingerie is for men.
I am no expert. As always, I am just one guy with an opinion. However, people seem to give compliments and ask for my opinion on clothing quite often. I am far too humble to take credit. All credit goes to my tailor, and the countless other clothiers I have come across over the years.
The craftsmanship of a gifted tailor is something else. The attention to detail when they are putting together a piece of fabric, reminds me of a surgeon in a hospital room.
This platform is one, which I will use to help others who are curious, on what it means to dress the part of a gentleman.
The most important thing to remember is this: your style trumps fads and trends. What works for someone else, may not work for you. What works for you, will not work for someone else. Observe my guidelines, but choose what works best for you. Fashion is the umbrella, but you make it your own through your interpretation, or what we call your style.
There is one thing in particular, that I genuinely wish would just die a horrible death, and this is of course sagging pants.
I cannot stand by and watch young boys and adult males continue believing, that sagging their pants is somehow fashionable. You then see them wobbling along like penguins, because moving about becomes rather difficult, when you place your pants far below the waistline. This lacks sound reasoning. You lower your pants so low, it becomes difficult to walk, which you then periodically pull up. This Makes No Sense.
On behalf of other like-minded folks, no one wants to see your darn boxers.
Begin this journey through One Gentleman’s Closet with me, and feel free to share your thoughts every step of the way. I am a student of style, therefore, I am always learning.
When is your wife starting “The Lady’s Closet”? I’d love to hear from her 🙂 Though I’d obviously read what you have to say too 😉
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Lol. She read this comment and laughed. I have decided to have her be a guest blogger in One Gentleman’s Closet. She has her own blog, but it is on blogger. She started a few months after she created mine on WordPress. Now she regrets using Blogger. Lol.
It’s funny because I purchase more clothing for her, than she does for herself (I think). We have been together so long, I know all of her sizes, what works, what does not work, etc. I am rarely ever wrong, so that is a blessing indeed. However, I recall during our first year dating, I bought a bag. She did not like it. I was crushed. Lol. She then turns around and buys a similarly sized bag.
Me: I thought you did not like larger sized bags?
Her: Yeah, but I do now.
Lol.
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Haha! Brilliant!
Even my first blog was on blogger. Three years later I started this one. 🙂
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Did you somehow “transfer” it to WordPress or just removed it completely?
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No, I built this one from scratch. That one still exists. It’s too close to my heart to be removed from the internet completely! But there’s always the option of importing your blog to WordPress.
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I have several blogs on blogger. But once I found WordPress I made them private. When I blogged on Blogger I wrote under a pen-name. Here I use my real name and sometimes question if I made the right choice. LOL’s.
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Great post! I completely agree with your opinion that clothing is an extension of manners. Clothing can really accentuate the person you are and give many different perceptions to others. I would love to hear your wife’s opinions on fashion! Seems like you two make a great duo for creativity!
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Thanks. We work very well together, because her strengths are my weaknesses and her weaknesses are my strengths. I emphasize effective communication, so it minimizes emotional build-up and delayed release of anger. Lol. I saw it in other relationships, and I said heck no…not in ours.
She helped me mature in so many ways and I helped her wardrobe evolve. I am sure she will read this, but her shoe collection was SO BORING. Lol. She was afraid to try new styles and colors, but I helped erase her fears. She also helped my refusal to try certain styles of trousers. It is why I will make her become a guest blogger.
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That’s so cute, I practically threw up in my mouth lol. I think it is awesome how well you work together! I can’t wait to read more about the two of you!
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As a single mom of three boys I always felt the need to over stress to my son’s the importance of not sagging. As a matter of fact, I made leaving the house without wearing a belt an action that would get them harsh discipline. I also made unannounced visits to their schools. It not only put my sons on notice but it put the teachers and school admins on notice as well. My visits clearly stated I was a single parent that cared about her children. So when my children misbehaved or needed something the principles took time to call me personally. And if my children needed rides home the principle would give them a ride. The unscheduled school visits took away from vacation time but teaching my son’s to be men of honor was worth it.
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Please excuse this delayed response. I have not been on the website as active as once before. As you can see, my last post was the first week of August. LoL. Thank you for responding. I appreciate the feedback. Sagging pants–this is the epitome of ridiculous behavior, It looks hideous and gives a negative reflection of who you are. I am happy to read you were adamant, on not having your three boys follow with the crowd. The lesson you are instilling in your boys, it speaks volumes about the character they will possess as they continue to mature. You are taking lessons you know, to shape them as best as possible…that is the best you can do.
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Well! This explains why I have not seen any new post from you. Glad to read you are okay.
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Oh, I just LOVE that you’re gonna have a little “fashion/style” section to your blog!! 🙂 I agree with the sagging pants thing. Omg. Just so tacky and ghetto. They want them lose to sag and fall but they keep pulling them up. Makes no sense to me. I think it’s ridiculous and people also stereotype them—and not in a good way.
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She has always asked for me to begin something, in regard to style. I have worked on a blog entry, but it has remained in draft for a few weeks, due to awaiting approval from a custom clothier for something. They have yet to reply, so it seems I have to figure something else out.
As for the sagging of pants–I simply cannot understand why an adult male still does this nonsense. When you are a child, you do not know any better. When you become an adult, that excuse no longer flies.
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