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- Eva Longoria
- Sandra Bullock
- Jennifer Anniston
- Elizabeth Hurley
- Denise Richards
- Sophia Bush
- Uma Thurman
- Christine Berkley
- Vanessa Bryant
- Reese Witherspoon
What do these women have in common? Within this list, you will find a number of celebrity females, which magazines and polls consider attractive. However, beauty did not stop their partners from going astray. Now, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However, people consider the other women in these scenarios, as second fiddle to the women on this list.
We already have assumptions as to why he would cheat when the other woman is more attractive. However, why would he go about cheating with less attractive women? I am not saying this is the focus for women experiencing infidelity. However, they ask the question nonetheless.
As always, speaking the truth is critical for gentlemen, and with that in mind, beauty is completely irrelevant. Yes, you read that correctly. I will say it again differently; your heightened level of attractiveness will never keep a man from going astray—ever. Though critical thinking would conclude that beautiful women will never encounter infidelity, evidence from the list above proves this is completely wrong.
It took me some time to understand this concept, and I believe I finally arrived at the answer. Remove this idea that you are not pretty enough, or that you are pretty enough. These things are irrelevant.
You can be as stunning as Helen Mirren, Lynda Carter or Alfre Woodard. However, a man will still cheat with women, which magazines would classify as a five, on a scale from 1-10. This is not about you.
Yes, issues within the relationship can push either partner into the arms of someone else. This realization is common knowledge. However, a man who wants to cheat will cheat. It is inconsequential if you are a five, eight, one or 15 on a scale that measures from 1-10. It is not about you and your attractiveness.
You have to remove this misconception immediately, because it has little to do, if at all, with how beautiful you are.
However, why do men specifically cheat with less attractive women? With a man who wants to cheat, he will cheat obviously, but the reason the woman is less attractive, all comes back to him.
When he is seeking someone, whether on a conscious or subconscious level, his energy attracts that particular energy. In other words, he could be in a room filled with one thousand women, but 999 of them will never fill his void from within.
His energy will focus on that one individual, which replicates the energy he emits. He is not seeking the most attractive woman in the neighborhood, office, church or gym.
He is not seeking women to make his friends fawn over. He is not looking for America’s Next Top Model. Not-at-all. He is seeking the woman, whose energy replicates the exact energy he emits, during that exact moment.
She is not there to fulfill an ego boost, by letting him know he could attract a supermodel. The purpose of this other woman is not for him to say, I still got it. If that were the case, he would continue his pursuit, until she could put women like Beyonce or Scarlett Johansson to shame. However, that is not his objective.
I understand how complicated this may sound, but males are far simpler than you could ever imagine. We are simple in our way of thinking, and by that, I mean complications with women are a turnoff. Do not complicate the issue with this idea that she is less attractive.
It has less to do with you, and more to do with him. Whatever it is that he is personally longing for inside, will transfer in the form of energy. The woman receiving this energy during an affair is completely different from the recipient, which he will pursue for a long-term relationship.
It is not about beauty because some of the most beautiful Hollywood actresses today, could not keep a man from going astray if their lives depended on it. Why do men cheat with less attractive women?
In my opinion, you should remove the last four words of the question. What remains is the actual question, and you can find the answer to that question here.
Would it matter to you, if she were more or less attractive?
One Gentleman's Perspective 
So confused by this post. I know, I KNOW, you are not condoning cheating. However, are you saying that cheating should relate to looks? Many, many men cheat not for sex at all. Therefore, looks/beauty (which is deeper than skin and cannot be measured in my opinion) don’t play a factor in WHO the man cheats with.
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Good day and thank you for the response, and of course reading my blog post.
The first thing my wife mentioned doing is to ask if you read page two. Did you read page two? Throughout this blog post, the entire theme is to remove the concept of attractiveness, because beauty is not what causes men to stay faithfully, and it is not the driving force that causes him to stray.
In about eight locations in the post, I expressed specifically, that his cheating does not relate to looks. You mentioned being confused, but you have to understand how confusing your response was to us. You literally asked questions that were answered in the blog, on at least eight attempts. The purpose of this post was to show that even Hollywood’s most beautiful women experience infidelity, thus, beauty is not as important as you may think. When it involves infidelity that is.
I ended the post by suggesting women remove the last three words of the question in the headline, and what remains is a question they should ask. I also said they could find an answer on one of my previous uploads, which I provided with a link. People cheat for a number of reasons, but in this article, not once did I say men cheat due to sex. However, some do. I hope this brought clarity to your confusion. If I did not do an effective job in this explanation, please let me know. All the best.
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No, I did not even see the page 2 until you mentioned it. I rarely see posts that go 2 pages, but now see the majority of yours do.
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My wife knows best. Lol. I started writing two pages, when the word count hits 1400 or so. I do not like the design of one long page, so I split the post into two pages, whenever the word count becomes too high. It was a concept I discovered from WordPress, involving the process of reading as a viewer.
However, is the post much clearer now? Did I represent a clear message, in relation to the title?
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Yes, it makes more sense now. I get what you mean about the pages. However, you can clearly see how it can be confusing unless we are used to looking at 1 page.
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Personally, I cannot. When you scroll to the bottom of the page, before you can actually comment, it shows pages:1, 2. It is clear to me because it is visible before you can comment. However, though it is clear to me, you say it is not clear to you. I cannot say your assessment is incorrect. Due to you specifically mentioning not being aware, I will still look into changing this.
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Excellent point, as always 😉
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Thank you for taking the time to read my post. It was a long post, so your time is appreciated. Thanks
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Good one.
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Thank you for reading this post. I must apologize for this delay. I was reading old articles to edit formatting, and realized I did not notice this comment. Terribly sorry about that. Thanks again.
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🙂 no problem brother. Felt happy for your reply.
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